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Create Your Space

7/30/2020

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your environment matters

I've spent my whole life thinking of others and mostly, putting others' needs before my own.  It was part of my upbringing, the culture of what I was learned to do. Don't get me wrong, taking care of others is not a curse; it is, in fact, rewarding on many levels. It is still instilled in me, but that priority has changed.  
In 2016, I started my metamorphosis.  It was not on purpose.  I've always desired to own my own business, but I knew I could not afford to support my family if I quit my main job.  Instead, I started growing my business on weekends and late nights.  Many people will call it a "side hustle"; I now call it my expansion period.  Having the ability to change your work habits to gain what you need in order to grow is HUGE!
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Here in 2020, I have allowed myself to flow. I embrace change and I am comfortable in it. I'm also more aware of what I need around me to facilitate growth in my personal and professional life. I have long envisioned my SPACE - a space where I can enjoy my love of the outdoors, pray, eat, work, and a place that radiates my personality and level of comfort - A SPACE TRULY FOR ME!
The transformation of my space is not just physical.  It was necessary that it feeds my emotional side. A friend recently told me that "you have to let people do their thing and just watch and support".  When I seem to fall back into the overly protective mom rituals (that's a tough habit to break) - I am reminded to  "Let them kids be!"
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It has a Breakfast Cafe feel where I can relax before starting my busy dayl!
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The sound of the outdoors is my background music while I enjoy a comfortable home workspace.
PictureBirds in flight show the ability to embrace movement and change.
  • Taking a more hands-off approach has truly helped me refocus my energy into my self-growth. My space reminds me that I embrace change because growth is often uncomfortable.  My space is my sanctuary, so I can be relaxed in my thinking and creative modes.  This decoration of space means a lot to me, since everything and anything I do is always reciprocal of many hours of prayer.  I put God first in my decisions.  I am well aware of what God has done in my life and fully acknowledge that if it was not for Him, I would not be the strong, independent woman I am today.  This space was created for me to growth my life and faith. ~ Carla

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3 Comments
Louvina Holton
7/30/2020 10:50:11 am

Beautifully spoken...I needed this...Thanks Best for You.

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Carla Stokes link
7/30/2020 01:27:03 pm

Hey Sis, So glad to add a little sparkle of information to your day. Remember you deserve some time and space to yourself. Be blessed and love you <3 Carla

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Kendrick B link
5/23/2022 05:44:15 am

Hello nice blog

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