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7/9/2020

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WHY I DATE MYSELF On Social Media

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Many coaches and trainers start their sessions by asking, "Who is your target audience?" Well, I know who my target audience of one is.  It is ME.  It's like I'm dating myself.  I want my posts to represent the best parts of ME, so that if I want to go and see how BLESSED my life has been... I just click on my profile. I don't have to wait for the Facebook algorithm to show me a positive post.  My digital journal of self reflection  is easily accessible, so I can review and reflect on how I will be better the next day or moment. Others can also access this love story and be encouraged to build their own. 

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I love dating myself.  Just like the saying, you are what you eat! You should filter what you allow yourself to be reminded of about you.  Keeping your living space positive will keep positive people around you. A person's character is defined by what they allow into their lives. If you want to see a person's true character, look at the people they are closest too.  How do they treat their mom or siblings or kids?  How do they interact with their friends?  Where do they hang out?  What do they do in their spare time? I'm loving all that about myself!


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These are simple observations... A few months ago, I remember seeing a list of questions in a magazine that every woman should ask a guy when dating them.  I laughed, because I don't want to interview anyone.  All you need to do is look at their interactions on social media or ask who is the most important person in their lives or even talk about what they did today.  You will know if a person has a growth mindset or if they are stuck in the mud.  

Growth is something that occurs once your tolerance level breaks.  If a person is tolerating a mediocre level, their life will reflect that.  They cannot change how they live overnight.  There will be some evidence of who they really are reflected in what they allow in their surroundings.  ​
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​In dating myself, I've found that I'm totally awesome.  My self-confidence is high, I'm not afraid to be ME, and best of all - I KNOW HOW TO ENCOURAGE MYSELF WHEN I'M DOWN.  I like to eat. I live an active life.  I love my kids and my dog! Each time I review my page, I'm reminded of the people and things I love most!  My life has its ups and downs, but I know that my ups will be greater than my downs.  I'm not a perfect person - I don't want to be.  I just make sure that whatever life throws my way, I will become a better person because of it! ​​

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Lisa Schoerner
7/9/2020 05:11:57 pm

Love your positive forward thinking attitude! I look forward to see your inspirational quotes of Facebook. They give me something to reflect on and often give me a new perspective on my day! Love you, Carla!

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Carla
7/9/2020 09:26:07 pm

Thank you, Lisa. You are a beautiful soul. I appreciate your encouraging comment.

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