Recipe for Success

Being your Best You isn't Always Easy

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I could not count the number of times I've said, "Be yourself."  I often advise people to be natural when facing difficult situations. In reality, sometimes situations dictate more action than our normal selves would provide. As part of life, we cannot predict what is going to happen today or tomorrow. We are all hoping and praying for the best each day.  It is inevitable that something is going to happen to throw you off your "good day" game. 
What's Your Mindset Strategy?
You cannot prepare for everything, but you can have a plan for success no matter the circumstance. From my experiences, I have created a recipe for success in any situation. There are three ingredients that create the "success" pie. I will identify and explain them below. It is all about your mindset. Mindset is defined by google.com as "the established set of attitudes held by someone". What is your attitude? Is it a winning one? Your purpose on this earth is to be valuable to life.  No one is here to be insignificant. You have to value your potential and strive to make the most of everyday. Here are my keys to success, the blueprint of being the best you.

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Recipe for Success Ingredients
As promised, I have stated that the recipe for success has three ingredients. They are:
*100% Motivation
*50% Crazy
​*0% Negativity

Fully Motivated
Being fully motivated takes time and attention.  One does not wake up and give every drop of their energy to improve themselves or their situation.  You cannot expect that from others or from yourself off the bat. What you can do is give everything your best shot. I'm sure you will not disagree with me that being motivated can be hindered by not understanding the purpose or outcome. Let's start with believing that you can make a difference and turn things around. Giving 100% to your marriage, your kids, or your job is not a goal but a must. Fully motivated means that you are not going to quit until you have exhausted every safe route to success. Setting the example usually cause other things and people to get on board. Before you know it, you will have a team working toward your goal with the highest level of proficiency. 

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Half Crazy
Notice I said, "50% Crazy".  Having common sense is a must at all times, but sometimes your reasoning can hold you back.  Someone once said to me that success takes sacrifice. If you are not willing to take risks, then you may be holding yourself back. Walking a straight line leads you straight to a destination.  That destination may not be the best, but you do get somewhere.  Even to cross a mountain you have to go up and then down. Take a risk. Don't be afraid to go the extra mile to get what you want. I was talking to a friend just the other day. She spoke about how difficult it is to date in 2019. I suggested online dating. She looked at me as if I asked her to run 30 miles barefoot. It took a while but I explained that you cannot overcome stubborn barriers with traditional means. There is a way to date online safely, just as there is a way to lose weight by not exercising. You just have to have a plan and stick to that plan, but be a little crazy. 
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Ain't No Place for Negativity
ZERO NEGATIVITY... I met a lady last weekend who was so inspiring. She said some really positive things about me and my business. She was so encouraging to me, but when she started to talk about herself, it was a totally different story. She said that she always wanted to start a business making baskets but only ended up creating them as gifts for family and friends. She went on to say that she really enjoyed it but thought that if she would make them for a business, it would take away that enjoyment. I could feel her regret. Her smile faded. 
The first point I want to make is that you cannot just be an inspiration to those around you. What you say and feel about yourself are so important to your success and health.  It is not okay to put yourself down. You are your biggest fan.  Self-negativity is a vicious disease that will eat away at you until there is nothing left. When you commit to being a positive person, your view of life changes. You start to see open doors instead of closed ones.  On barriers where there seem to be no weaknesses, light begin to shine through.  It is all about your mindset for success and being positive is a must!​

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A Mindset for Success
Here is a recap:
*Motivate yourself! Go for it! Set a goal and work to achieve it!  Success is not optional! Be a go-getter!
*Try it! As long as you are safe, try something new! Get a little crazy! Think outside the box! Every problem has a solution.
*Stop Negativity in its tracks. There is no place for negativity in your life. Squash it!  

As always, thank you for reading. I hope you have found some truth and motivation in my blog post. Feel free to comment below. Also, check out all  the plus size styles in this post at www.bestyoubyhts.com. Best You Clothing will have you looking and feeling great in their cute, curvy, and comfortable styles. Best You has clothing for women in sizes small to 5XL. Use code BEST15 to save 15% off your order.  This blog contains affiliate links.

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